In the Shel Silverstein poem "Zebra Question" the child asks "are you black with white stripes or white with black?" And the zebra asks "are you good with naughty times or naughty with good?" That's a key question for marriages and families. Are they good with bad times or bad with good? Unlike the zebra's stripes, the order matters. Sure you'll have bumps. But make sure that the happy times outweigh the bad. Here's one way, by making time for important things, not just waiting for it to happen by magic (it won't). Relationship Glue Recipe, Make Time Do Not Just Wait for It Relationship Glue Recipe, Make Time Don't Wait for It
In the Shel Silverstein poem "Zebra Question" the child asks "are you black with white stripes or white with black?" And the zebra asks "are you good with naughty times or naughty with good?" That's a key question for marriages and families. Are they good with bad times or bad with good? Unlike the zebra's stripes, the order matters. Sure you'll have bumps. But make sure that the happy times outweigh the bad. Here's one way, by making time for important things, not just waiting for it to happen by magic (it won't). Relationship Glue Recipe, Make Time Do Not Just Wait for It 
